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And also on that note: I am twenty years old and my fiance is nineteen. We don't want a child. Whoops. I had better get myself 'fixed'. I use that word because that's what humans do to animals when they want them not to breed. They make a reproductive decision FOR them. They 'fix' them. Is that what we women who don't want kids right now are going to have to do to please you? Get 'fixed'? Of course not. Because if I ever want kids, I want to be able to have them. I might change my mind.

from zingey

(As in, the problem with your statement isn’t that you want ALL pro-choicers to attempt to sterilize themselves. It’s that you insist on a possibly-permanent solution to a probably-temporary thing.) Many, MANY women* do not want kids because they cannot currently raise them in good standing. Getting a tubal litigation is not meant to be birth control for people who aren’t absolutely certain that they NEVER want children.

I visited a castle today!

And then I walked around the lake (or loch) that’s on the property and came across some cute babies:

Then on the other side of the loch, I spotted these adorable things:

Today was a good day.

when did i say all pro-choicers should be sterilized?... i'm confused...

from Anonymous

If you’re the same person:

Let me get the last word in and then end a conversation. Haha. I win the "discussion now." I'm right you're wrong. lolol the end.

from zingey

Ahahahaha, basically.

hey. you do not have to be so rude. i really do not give a care if you know who i am and block me. i am not arguing, but want to understand why you think it is alright. and have fun on your vacation. if you want to keep having this very eye-opening DISCUSSION with me, you can message me in my inbox when you are done with your vacation, since you know who i am. if you do not want to have this convo anymore, because you know you are wrong, then forget this ever happened. have a blessed vacation.

from Anonymous

Rude?

I don’t have to be so rude?

Please, enlighten me on my “rudeness.”

Did I say I didn’t want to have the conversation anymore? (Spoiler alert: I didn’t).

Why don’t you grab some patience and wait until I either a) have more down time or b) get home so I can give a well thought out answer instead of pulling shit out of my ass?

On the "pro-choicers should all be sterilized muahahahha!" note, why on earth should ALL pro-choicers be sterilized? So many pro-choicers would never have an abortion themselves and want to have a kid, if not several. Pro-lifers are dipshits.

from Anonymous

On the same token. How does this sound? If all pro-choicers will agree to get themselves sterilized, then you anti-choicers must all agree to adopt seven unwanted children. They will not all be babies. Some will not be white. Some will be disabled. You talk about how many unwanted kids there are, and yet you fail to realize that the adoption and foster care systems in this country are in the toilet. Back to the first point: If you think it sounds ridiculous; That is how you sound to us.

from zingey

I’m drawing the line now.

I’m on vacation. I don’t need to work while I’m relaxing and leaving things behind. (And by work I mean that I consider running this blog a huge part of my life and I treat it as a job - even though I’m not getting paid).

So all those messages in my inbox from you (yes, I know they’re all from you) are going to wait until my vacation is over. Patience ought to do you well.

PS: I have been informed on who you are and I know your URL. If you keep bothering me, I will block you.

Once I saw a pro-lifer tell people who don't want kids to just "get a hysterectomy." What? Do they have any knowledge of uteruses whatsoever? You can't "just get a hysterectomy." Those are only done when you have severe medical problems that would make you have to lose your uterus! It's not an elective surgery!

from Anonymous

Exactly!